PHOTOGRAPHY: Ken Kienow. A friend of mine got married a few years ago and I fell in love with her wedding photographs. The photographs made me feel like I was living in the moment; they were creative, and natural. So I got the name of her photographer (Ken Kienow) and we booked him immediately for our wedding day.
WHERE: The ceremony and reception were in two
different locations. Ceremony, took place at a private
residence in Dinuba, CA. The reception, to place at
Ridge Creek Golf Course. Finding a venue was one of the
hardest things Josh and I experienced during our wedding planning.
Every place we visited was either not in the right location,
not our style, or too expensive. However, after a long search
a wonderful couple from our church, the Henderson's, offered their
home for our wedding ceremony. Josh and I visited their home
and we fell in love immediately with the natural feel and its open
landscape, tall grass, and intimate setting. So we decided to
have our ceremony at their home, and our reception at an alternate
location (Ridge Creek Golf Course).
THEME: Vintage garden romance. Since the
start of the wedding planning I new that I wanted a vintage, and
romantic setting which I achieved with the help of friends,
and family. Over the years my grandmother has hand made many
chrocheted doilies, which she lovingly provided, so that I could
decorate my cake, sign in, unity sand, and guest's tables.
All of my tables were also decorated with vintage vases, tea
cups, tea pots, and perfume bottles which were purchased at thrift
stores throughout Tulare, and Fresno county. Finding these
vases (or treasures as I call them) was no easy task but it was so
much fun, as friends, family, and even Josh (my husband) would
accompany me on this search which began early on after becoming
engaged and lasted until a couple of weeks before our wedding.
My color palette changed so many times before I decided on
the final one; multiple shades of yellow, white, pink, and peach
which further complemented my vintage garden romance theme. I
am so pleased with the way that it all came together, it was
rewarding to see all of my dreamed up ideas in front of me on the
wedding day.
GUESTS: Josh and I were surrounded by
many of our fabulous friends and family. There were 200
guests who attended our wedding and filled the day with love and
joy.
DRESS: I purchased my wedding dress from
Brides and Maidens in Visalia CA. However, it took alot of
searching before I found my dress, and it is true what people say,
when I slipped in it I KNEW it was MINE!!!!!!! My dress was a
beautiful plunge-sweetheart lace dress.
BRIDESMAIDS: My bridesmaids wore yellow
T-length dresses made by Diane Smith. Finding a dress
for my ladies that was yellow (not just any yellow, I was looking
for a vintage shade of yellow), reasonably priced, and versatile
enough to be worn again was difficult to do. My bridesmaids
and I felt like we looked everywhere and could not find what we
were looking for, until my soon to be sister-in-law (who is also
one of my bridesmaids) introduced me to Diane Smith (a seamstress
from Dinuba CA). Diane is amazing, she was able to create the
dress that my bridesmaids and I dreamed up, she personalized every
bridesmaids dress with a name tag, and she gave my girls an
unbelievable price.
GROOMSMEN: The groomsmen wore black slacks,
and a black vest from Mens Wearhouse. They purchased their
shoes, white formal shirt, and ties in a store of their
choice as long as they obtained the correct color (this helped make
their attire more affordable without compromising the look I
wanted). The groom wore a Kenneth Cole suit which he had
tailored at Mens Wearhouse, and black Calvin Klein shoes. The
men all wore boutonniere's created out of yellow billy-balls (the
groom's boutonniere had 3 billy-balls and the groomsmen had 2
billy-balls) , wheat, raffia, and greenery.
HAIR: I wore my hair in a loose french
braid which was then secured in a loose chignon at the
end. I was so happy with my hair as it fit my style perfectly
(effortlessly romantic), thanks to my hairstylist's creativity.
My hairstylist was Jessica Reyes (who is also my regular
hairdresser and cousin) from Marchky's Modern Image Salon in
Visalia CA. My hair piece was made by my sister who was also
my maid of honor. Thanks to my loving and creative family I
wore a beautiful hairstyle and hairpiece.
MAKEUP: Originally I was planning on doing my
own makeup, until I came to the realization that my makeup would
not withstand the Valley heat in the summer. So, I spoke
to friends who had recently gotten married during the spring and
summer months in the valley, and they recommended that I get
airbrush makeup. I absolutely loved my airbrush makeup; it
was soft and natural, thanks to my fabulous makeup artist Alisha at
Metropolis salon in Visalia CA.
RINGS: My husband and I decided that he
would make the final decision and purchase on my wedding ring.
When he proposed I was surprised not only because it was an
amazing and creative proposal but also because he chose the perfect
ring for me. My ring was purchased at Fred Meyer Jewelers.
My husbands wedding band was initially a gift that I had
given him on Valentines day, two years before we were engaged.
His stirling silver wedding band was purchased at a local
indie shop named Green Goddess in Visalia CA.
STATIONERY/INVITATIONS: My green
(earth friendly) invitations were obtained through my wonderful
friend Heather DelaCruz, owner of Happily Ever After. The
invitation required no envelope, as it folded into itself.
The RSVP card was attached to the invitation and perforated
for an easy and clean tear. Directions, and registry
information was personally created (with the help of family) and
attached to the invitation with alternating green, and yellow yarn
along with twine. Finally, I decided to use a typewriter font
for the invitation so that I could continue with the vintage look.
FLOWERS: All of my flower arrangements;
bride and bridesmaids bouquets, corsages and boutonniere's, and
center pieces were created by Heather DelaCruz from Happily Ever
After. I asked Heather to create and eclectic garden look for
all of my flower arrangements, which she accomplished. I am
so happy with her work and creativity, thank you Heather.
CEREMONY DETAILS: In my opinion, the
ceremony was breathtakingly beautiful for multiple reasons.
The saying that states less is more, fits my ceremony
perfectly. The ceremony location had a natural feel as it was
surrounded by open landscape with tall lush trees. Thus,
only small pots of flowers were added to make the isle, white bows
were used to add a simple decoration to the chairs, and a simple
yet beautifully decorated arch was added. In addition, the
beauty of the ceremony was enhanced by the love and support of our
friends and family, but most uniquely by our officiant who was my
father-in-law. Throughout, the ceremony there was not a dry
eye and I could hardly keep myself from sobbing in happiness as I
was saying my vows. Needless to say, it was so special to
have my father-in-law as our officiant.
RECEPTION DETAILS: The reception site
was perfect, better then I had imagined it. As I shared
earlier; between myself and my husband, family and friends, we all
collected all of the decoration items. However, my wonderful
friend Heather DelaCruz owner of Happily Ever After decorated all
of the tables while family and friends decorated the actual tent
with different materials, flowers, and ficus trees.
CAKE: My beautiful cake was created by
Shelly Wade from Gourmet Desserts in Visalia CA. I heard of
Shelly through a couple of friends who described her as Visalia's
best kept secret. I'm glad I found her, as she helped in
making my wedding a little sweeter with her fun and helpful
personality, and delicious cake.
ENTERTAINMENT: For entertainment my husband
and I decided that we were going to have a DJ (of course), and we
absolutely had to have a Mariachi. Our DJ was DJ George from
Dinuba CA. DJ George was amazing; he offered great prices,
and a fun and helpful personality. Finding our DJ was not
nearly as difficult as it was to find a Mariachi, but finally we
found Mariachi Viajeros from Fresno CA. I was so happy with
Mariachi Viajeros, thay sounded amazing and they were so much
fun.
FOOD & DRINKS: Ridge Creek Golf Course
catered the buffet style fruit display (which was made into
swan) and sit down dinner and drinks.
LITTLE EXTRAS: There are additional things
that Josh and I did to personalize our wedding. I created my
own sign in book (it took me alot of time, but I'm glad I did it);
I decorated it with stamps and photographs of Josh and I. The
sign in book was created so that our guests could write
messages, prayers, and/or wishes. At the ceremony site,
our guests were greeted by sign that Josh and I created.
During the ceremony break I was surprised by my husband who
sang a song for me. Josh and I took free dancing classes from
a friend (who is a ballroom dancer) and learned a great routine
which we performed during our first dance. Josh and I were
surprised by our family who created personalized champagne bottle
for Josh and I, and Jones Sodas for the wedding party. On the
wedding day I assigned one person, a friend of the family, to make
sure everything was executed as it was suppose to be.
Finally, Josh and I had a dollar dance which helped us with
some extra expenses for our honeymoon thanks to our generous
friends and family!
BEST ADVICE FOR PLANNING A WEDDING/TO BRIDES:
1. Let others help you throughout the wedding process, it was
so nice to be able to relax. 2. Make sure to give you and
your ladies enough time to get ready, and to relax and enjoy each
other, I was able to have that time with my bridesmaids and I
cherish it. 3. Take the time to soak it all in, I did this a
few times throughout my wedding (I slowly scanned throughout the
room/place and soaked in everyone's smiles, the fresh air, the
music, and the beauty) it was so refreshing.
FABI'S CONTACTS:
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PHOTOGRARHY: Ken Kienow
• BRIDE'S DRESS
& VEIL: Brides & Maidens (Visalia CA)
• BRIDESMAIDS
DRESSES: Diane Smith (Seamstress, Dinuba CA)
• GROOMS
SUIT: Kenneth Cole Suit, Calvin Klein shoes
• RINGS:
Fred Meyer Jewelers, Green Goddess (Visalia CA)
• HAIR:
Jessica Reyes, Marchky's Modern Image Salon (VIsalia CA)
•
MAKEUP: Alisha, Metropolis Salon (Visalia CA)
•
INVITATIONS: Happily
Ever After
•
FLOWERS: Happily
Ever After
• CAKE:
Gourmet
Desserts (Visalia CA)
•
RECEPTION: Ridge Creek Golf Course
•
CEREMONY: Private residence in Dinuba, CA
• WEDDING
STYLIST: Happily Ever After ( + help from family &
friends!)
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ENTERTAINMENT: DJ George (Dinuba CA)